My husband recently began thinking about getting circumcised. Oddly enough i've never been with a circumcised man and didn't really know how to respond when he told me he was thinking about having it done? Is it really any different at all? Will lovemaking feel different? i've heard you can tell the difference. Has anyone been in a similar situation? Well any answers/advice would help really.My husband may be getting circumcised, any advice on how it will affect me if he does?
he won't be able to service you for a month or soMy husband may be getting circumcised, any advice on how it will affect me if he does?
The man is the only one thats going to feel any different, however you're going to need to change how you use it for him, if you catch my meaning. Because he's going to be sensitive in different places than usual. Whereas the top is usually the un circumsised mans choice, youre going to have to be looking at the main thing, i.e. working on the rest.
Damn this is hard to explain without being vulgar. hehe.
You wont feel anything different though.
Have you considered the procedure? Women do have this done in some parts of the world. Have you discussed why he feels like having it done? Hope that he is not afraid to talk to you. If he does, just be supportive. Life delivers many ups and downs.
you wont have to skin it back any more.
My ex husband had it done when he was older too! He said it made him feel more sensitive and it was cleaner and heatheir than when he was not. I personally saw a big difference because he was big in the first place. It did make a difference when we made love because it seemed like it was smaller without that foreskin.That shouldnt make a difference if you love each other though, remember, size dont matter, its what you do with it it that does.
My first husband was not circumcised. My current husband is. I see no difference during love making. Esthetically and hygienically I prefer circumcised. (BTW - my husband had his circumcision done about 25 years ago. He's now 77.)
You'll probably notice the difference on your own
I don't know if you will feel the difference, but your husband certainly would. Over time your husbands penis will become desensitized and therefore when he makes love to you he will not become as aroused or stimulated as before because the skin has been use to being exposed and rubbed against (his underwear and pants. Uncircumcised men still have their foreskin protecting the head and when they have sex the foreskin rolls back exposong the head. that head is still sensitive to touch and i would guess they will have a better love making experience as a result. jmo.
I have been with both circ'd and an uncirc'd man. I could not personally tell the difference.
If he does do it, be prepared for some healing time. I know three men who were circ'd as adults and they were down for the count for a while.
They also mentioned that it was really difficult for them because men tend to think sexually most of the time and that is not good when your peep is needing to rest and relax for a while.
hope this helps.
best,
cez
mine got circumcized at 27 and wasnt anywhere near as bad as he thought it would be,and was healed completely in 3 to 4 days.it wont affect you at all,nor will it affect him,in fact,its been proven to be healthier,cleaner,and less chances of getting cancer of the prostate.there will be absolutely no difference in feeling at all,none whatsoever.good luck to you both
I'm circumsized and it was the first time for my girl too. She says it 'looks' different (obviously), and it takes some time to get used to visually, but besides that, no difference!
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Sex will be a whole new ball game for both you and him, and not necessarily in a good way. This website explains it better than I can.
ReplyDeletewww.sexasnatureintendedit.com
And I'm sorry but the comment above mine is filled with myths. I am a nurse (RN) and there is absolutely no connection between having a foreskin and having prostate cancer. The prostate is between the bladder and rectum and has nothing to do with the foreskin! Also, it's not "cleaner" as long as your husband has access to running water. Both circumcised and intact men need to shower regularly so they don't smell, just like a woman needs to wash her genitals.
Your husband may love being circumcised or he may hate it. Only time will tell. If he loves it, great for him. If he hates it...too bad, he can't put back what is removed, you know?
Good luck!